Beware: random thoughts to follow…
The idea of waiting is kind of growing on me. Society generally has us all in a rush to get from A to B but there’s also that concept of enjoying the moment. Enjoying the season of waiting.
For me, in terms of relationships, waiting means anticipation, hopefulness, mystery, more time for personal growth, opportunity and capacity to invest in others, less angst and emotional drama, being independent of others but depend on God for all your needs.
I feel like there’s a group of people who don’t get much attention in our society: The Happy Singles. Single people who are loving life and living it to its fullest. Why don’t we read or hear about them? Because we love the drama, the complicated relationships, the heartbreak of people dating and sleeping around so happy, uncomplicated, unattached single people = boring.
Oh well. I’ll still enjoy waiting. I feel like right now, free of all kind of romantic relationships or crushes, I can love fully and freely. And that’s awesome.
I’m so thankful to get a second chance at living life as a happy single :). I could do with a few more years of this bliss.